Love isn’t always hugs and kisses or flowers and chocolates. Sometimes, all love is, is holding out a hand to help another.That’s how Geri and Alwayne Meyer explained the secret to love.“I don’t know that there is a secret,” Geri said. “It can be hard work at times; It can be a lot of helping out. I was out in the field and he’d help with the kids. It’s a lot of helping each other.”Geri and…